Singlehood

Yesterday, I found some time to be alone. I was listening to some feel-good-mood music when an idea came in my mind. What if I was sharing this moment with someone I love, would it make any difference? As what I've written with my previous blogs, I am single and desperately looking for someone(of course that's just a joke) to share my days with. Having this in mind, I came up with an idea of an assessment to check myself. These are the things that would somehow help me or make me feel better during singlehood.

Image is Power
-Let's admit it! People are mostly attracted or motivated with what they see. We are being judged by what other people see. So as singles, it is our responsibility to stay fresh, beautiful, fit and healthy as much as we can. Be honest with yourself. Everybody needs an improvement, so bring out your tape measure and weighing scale. If you're overweight then admit it. It wouldn't hurt if this realization will come from you. Sometimes, friends may tell us lies but not our eyes. Don't expect someone to look for the inner beauty. Let it shine for all others to see!

Right Time
-Being alone does not mean that you have to stop growing and enjoying life. Do not set a timeframe in which you expect to have a boyfriend. It will only give you disappointments if not achieved. For the meantime, what you can do is enjoy the days that you are still single. Read a good book or watch a movie. Your time will be limited once you have someone to share your day with. Always remember that it is better to be alone than to be stuck with the wrong person.

Think Positive
-Being single doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. Never feel bad about yourself. Always look on the brighter side of things. Maybe Cupid is busy looking for your perfect match. It's not always your fault. Even the most beautiful and the wealthiest people had their moments of being single.

Start Searching
-Don't be scared to engage in a relationship. Some people may find it difficult to be in a relationship because they're afraid to get hurt. It is true that it's better to love and fail than never love at all. If the relationship worked, then good; if not, then find another guy. Do not wait in despair for that guy to arrive. It may take you some time to have another one but the important thing is that there is a higher chance of being involved in a relationship again. You may also need to learn to adjust with other people's differences. Remember that you're looking for someone who could complete you, so they should also feel the same.

Smile
-Always make it a point that you wear your best smile.